Watering Your Flowers: A Reflection on Growth, Gratitude, and Quiet Impact

When we think about growth, we often focus on the big wins: promotions, completed projects, or major milestones. But true growth—the kind that shapes who we are—often happens in the quiet, overlooked moments. It’s in the ripple effect of a conversation, the steady persistence through challenges, or the way we show up for others without expecting recognition.

We are far more exceptional than we give ourselves credit for.

As I prepare to leave SymphonyAI and step into a new chapter, I’ve been reflecting on these quiet moments and the lessons they hold. This past week, I’ve been deeply moved by the kind words of colleagues and clients who’ve shared how my work impacted their own. Honestly, I was surprised. I always knew I had strong relationships, but I didn’t realize others felt so strongly about our partnerships. Hearing how I’ve influenced their work and lives was humbling—and it brought a clarity I hadn’t fully embraced before: we are far more exceptional than we give ourselves credit for.

I’ve been quick to celebrate others’ growth but slow to “water my own flowers.”

It’s easy to get caught up in the rush of day-to-day demands, to focus on the next task or the next challenge, without stopping to acknowledge the impact we’re already making. I realized that while I’ve been diligent about recognizing the contributions of others, I haven’t always paused to reflect on my own. I’ve been quick to celebrate others’ growth but slow to “water my own flowers.”

This reflection brought me to an important truth: greatness doesn’t always come with fanfare. Often, it’s found in the consistency, care, and quiet impact we bring to our work and relationships. But we all need to be reminded of that greatness—both by ourselves and by others.

This is why I believe in giving flowers to those around us. A simple “thank you” or “you’ve made a difference” can mean the world. It’s not just about offering encouragement; it’s about making people feel seen and valued, especially in moments when they might not see it for themselves.

I see more clearly than ever that the relationships we build, the trust we foster, and the small, quiet ways we show up for each other are just as vital as the work itself.

As I move forward, I’m carrying these lessons with me. I’ve always believed in approaching my work with care and intention, crafting something meaningful and lasting. But now, I see more clearly than ever that the relationships we build, the trust we foster, and the small, quiet ways we show up for each other are just as vital as the work itself.

To everyone who has been part of this journey: thank you. Your trust, support, and encouragement have shaped me more than you know. I’ll share more about my next steps soon, but for now, let’s stay connected.

Here’s to growth, gratitude, and giving—and receiving—the flowers we all deserve.